It’s crazy, just this morning I was thinking to make an apology to all the young men I placed my insecurities & fears on. It’s not fair & us women do not acknowledge this when we need to. It takes two, & until we are able to look in the mirror & see ourselves, we will continue to attract what we are. Honestly I am tired of taking a passive approach to my singleness instead of addressing the real issue. Like the fact that I can be lazy, complacent, & content therein which is a sure fire hell no for any man that is looking to seriously commit. Beautiful girl with no ambition ? Why would anyone take me seriously? Shoot, I don’t even even take me seriously. So there you have it! Marinating in this energy that I’m oh so comfortably nestled in, I am attracting good for nothing men & entertaining them…all the while I am unfulfilled, discontent, suspicious…
Like Bijan, come on GIRL, is it really worth it to settle this hard because you don’t want to put in the work to get the results you yearn for ? You can have faith out of this world, but if you’re not striving to achieve your goals, you are a fool, a straight up deceived woman who needs to wake up & take control over her life! Why take whatever punches life throws at you & not fight back?! Change the narrative, stick to a plan & manifest every GOOD thing GOD HAS PROMISED YOU? Value/Respect self, put GOD/SELF FIRST. You are now dead & your life is hid with Christ in God (Colossians 3:3). You are not your own (1 Corinthians 6:19).
You are fearfully & wonderfully made! Don’t waste your youth & vigor by accepting mediocrity. Be SELECTIVE with what you watch, listen to & think about because it influences & affects you! You got this love, set your affections on things above, not on things on the earth (Colossians 3:2). Whatsoever things are true, honest, just, pure, lovely, of a good report: if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, THINK ON THESE THINGS (Philippians 4:8). Do not be conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may PROVE what is that good, & acceptable, & perfect, WILL OF GOD (Romans 12:2).
PRAYER: Renew my mind Father, help me to bold, confident, & faithful in standing on & trusting your word. Use me Lord to minister to those whose hearts break like mine. Send me where they are thirsty for your word so I may water your people by your power & by your might God! Discipline my soul Lord Jesus so I can run this race with endurance & bless others along the way. In your mighty name Jesus, amen.
READ: Proverbs 4:20-27